Leaving this here for myself and anyone else interested- ez-drive tutorial:
EZ-Drive Dynamic Drive Overlay \ VOGONS
www.vogons.org
Glad to see a happy ending to the storyJust realized I never followed up on this. So I got the XT-IDE card and it works wonderfully with my DOM. I've been happily booting to that for the last year. Has the side effect of leaving the IDE connector open for a CD drive Thanks a lot for all the inputs.