Hello bettablue,
I'm not sure wat you want to achieve with these upgrades and why you keep repeating the same questions over and over again, but as it obvious you don't know very much about the Model 4. I'll try to answer most of your questions:
1. CRT. Tandy has only sold green and b/w CRT's in the Model 4. It might be that some amber CRT will fit, but as Jay stated, it is really doubtful. You won't find it here I'm afraid.
2. Video upgrade. I'm not sure what you mean but the Model 4 has a fixed video-controller that can't be exchanged. There is however a hi-res upgrade that gives an hi-res overlay over the normal screen. There is special software needed to utilise it, and it will only work on a few DOS'ses. Only usable when you really know what you're doing.
3. Internal Hard disk. There has never been an internal harddisk for the Model 4. You can try to find an external unit, or use the FreHD emulator. It requires knowledge of the Model 4 DOS's. It won't boot from the harddisk (e.g. you need a floppy to start the DOS) unless you exchange one of the ROM chips.
4. 360 Kb Drives. It can be done and it will work, if you know what you're doing. Especially Newdos80 will give you headaches. It is unclear what you think you will gain by this.
5. 64 Kb. It will give you a total of 128 Kb which is nice. The extra 64Kb can be used for a Ramdisk or spooler, and can be used in Scripsit. For normal programs it is of little use. Be sure to buy not only the memory chips but also the GAL.
6. There are no upgrades that you're not supposed to know about ;-) The official Tandy upgrades can be found on trs-80.com, where the modern upgrades can be found on Ians site The Right Stuff.
My message is: be careful with upgrades. The Model 4 is a fine and complete machine which will give you much retro fun. These upgrades will cost you serious dollars and can only be utilized with the right software, the right knowledge and the right skills.
Hope this helps! (And I hope I don't sound to negative)
Bart