I used the files Dawsoca provided. They work. I can run Banktest and it tests and confirms the RAM is all good. And I can Load one of 2 EMS Drivers. I loaded EMS40.sys
When I type MEM I get the same info as the previous EMS driver. 640KB conventional and 1664KB Expanded.

Checkit can see the EMS ram and tests it fine. Im glad I have the original software now but seems I am relatively in the same place as far as memory management. I will still look for an ancient copy of Qemm.
Just curious. What Programs or games can I run on an 8088 that will natively use EMS memory?