Speaking of 4A (Not 4), I went a to flea market recently and picked up a few 4A carts for $4, including parsec. How rare exactly are 4A's? Because I've had my eyes on this one internet dealer for quite some time:
http://4jays.net/ (Though I guess their offer isn't too bad.)
IMHO, not too rare at all. I see them out there somewhat often. But then again, that's this area. Who knows what it's like out in your neck of the woods.
Regarding 4jays ... the price of $30 including the box wouldn't be too bad if it did include shipping. Unfortunately for their TI-99/4A stuff, you have to e-mail them with your order before a shipping quote can be prepared. Quite honestly, I'm spoiled though. Most of my TI-99/4A's were found in thrift shops, one of them I paid $1 for !!!
My suggestion ... hit the thrift stores & flea markets big time. You may not find a TI right away but eventually you will. Grab some game cartridges in the meantime that look fun to you. But if you do want one right away, you can probably snag one on eBay with probably 5 or 6 cartridges as a package deal for around the $30 mark, heck you might even do better than that on a good day.
Enjoy Parsec once you get your TI-99/4A -- and definitely pick up the speech synthesizer if you can, it makes the game all the more enjoyable.
Speaking of thrift stores, I've been finding some really rare games for the TI-99/4A lately. My best find however, were three of the four Milton Bradley Gamevision cartridges -- Hangman, Connect Four, & Zero Zap. They're not the regular TI style cartridges in terms of packaging and release date. The link for scans of what they look like follow here:
http://www.ti994.com/1979/cartridges/
I paid a whopping $1.99 for each one, cartridges only, at a local Goodwill. These particular versions are really really hard to come by -- rare, yes .... fun, not really.
I'd go with the cartridges of Donkey Kong, Popeye, Q*Bert, Munch Man, Parsec, & Tunnels of Doom. And last but not least, Microsurgeon. Very very enjoyable games.