So we know now that motherboard provides the PS/2 port functionality.
keyboard error or no keyboard present.
That message may have always been there but you didn't notice it because the computer quickly moved on to booting Windows.
cmos checksum error - defaults loaded
That's an error that normally appears after the battery has been removed/replaced.
If your battery was low (another cause of a checksum error), I would have expected another error message indicating such.
In any case, because the motherboard has lost the setting for the hard drive, you'll probably find that computer is no longer booting the hard drive.
Nothing you can do about that until the keyboard is functioning.
the keyboard is connected on the ps/2 port, and the num lock light is on...
what now?
You've tried jumpering the 'keylock' pins with the PS/2 keyboard connected and that didn't work.
So another possibility is that the PS/2 port is designed for a mouse only, but your PS/2 mouse isn't working for other reasons (some of which I covered earlier).
Without keyboard functionality, the computer is useless, and so we could expend a lot more effort into investigating the no-mouse symptom only to discover later that the computer is a throw-away because the keyboard circuitry is dead (e.g. faulty keyboard controller).
So let's wait for the keyboard adapter to arrive and attempt to get the keyboard functionality working first.
In the meantime, have a look for a motherboard part number. It wont be on a chip but will be either on a label or will be printed on the circuit board itself. With that, we might find some documentation that reveals which devices (keyboard, mouse, or both) that the PS/2 port supports.