finally! I have success.
Andrew programmed up all the PICs for me, and I got them a couple days ago. Tested it out, and it worked perfectly. I think my programmer is junk. It was only $5 on ebay, so that may explain it.
So, over the weekend, I threw together a half dozen of the things. I have not yet tried them all out, but am confident that they will work, as the one I cobbled together a few weeks ago now works with andrew's PIC.
It looks like the total costs for them is $7 each. Not sure what shipping will be, but if I use a flat rate box in the USA, it's an even 5 bucks. I'm sure I could mail them for less than 1/2 that if I use 1st class and not the priority box.
I want to wait until after xmas to do any post office runs, so let me put together a final price list, including overseas customers and I will start taking orders in about 2 weeks. I will have them in both kit and assembled/tested form. Assembled and tested boards will be $10, kits are $7. You get what you pay for with regards to my soldering.
(no, honestly, my soldering isn't that bad, these are just easy to do)
yay! thanks to everyone who has stuck it out this long.
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edit: oh yeah, it's weird and somewhat creepy to press the numlock key and not see the LED on the keyboard light up. I'm just not used to it that way, as that's typically my sign that the machine is accepting input. That's an XT for ya though!